The expression $\frac{f(x+h) - f(x)}{(x+h)-x} = \frac{f(x+h) - f(x)}{h}$ is the slope of the secant line connecting the points $(x, f(x))$ and $(x+h, f(x+h))$ on the curve $y=f(x)$.
As we take the limit $h \to 0$, the point $(x+h, f(x+h))$ gets closer and closer to the point $(x, f(x))$. The secant line pivots and approaches a limiting position, which is the tangent line to the curve at the point $(x, f(x))$.
Therefore, the limit of the slopes of the secant lines is the slope of the tangent line. This means the derivative represents the instantaneous rate of change of the function at a specific point.